First of all for the sake of full disclosure, I am man in my 50’s and not some young girl dishing advice. So why should you listen to me instead of some girl writing for LovePanky?
Would you go to an engineer to get get gardening advice or a Gardner to learn how to build a bridge? I think not. So if you want to know how men think and what makes them attracted to women, don;t ask another women. Ask a man.
Age Gives Wisdom
If you want him to desire you, to want you badly, then I am willing to let you in on men’s secrets where as a younger man might not. In fact, he might not even know these secrets himself. So, if you want the straight scoop, here it is.
How to Attract a Man With Out Chasing Him Off
Men are hunters and the worst thing you can do is hunt them. This will make them run like the devil, but this doesn’t mean you can’t take action. You just have to make him think that he is the one initiating it.
To do this, you must NEVER appear needy. If you are insecure and feel a great deal of self-doubt then you already know why you can’t attract a man. If this is the case, I have some bad news and good news for you. The bad news is that having a man in your life while being insecure is only going to make things worse for you in the long run and sometimes really worse.
I can’t tell you how many insecure women there are out there complaining about what pigs men are when it is really themselves they have to blame.
The good news is that you can begin to deal with your insecurities before you try to get into a relationship and that once you have dealt with them and become a strong, confident women, men will be very easy to come by.
If You Aren’t Insecure
In this case getting him to have a burning desire for you will be pretty easy. If you are strong and confident in who you are then it is a matter of technique as to why he is not desiring you this very minute.
You can have the greatest products in the world, but if they aren’t marketed properly, you won’t make a penny and the same goes for you. If you aren’t marketing yourself correctly, then you are bound to have a lonely, frustrating love life. Again, don’t blame men, you can’t change them, but you can change yourself.
The key to getting him to desire you is to provide his deepest needs without being too obvious. The first part of this equation rests in the skill of flirting. We are not talking about drooling and draping but a subtle way to trigger his pleasure hormones in his body and then pull the plug on him.
Let him catch you watching him across the room and then don’t look at him again for a long while. Then do it again and again don’t look at him for a while. As you begin to awaken the hunter in him, you are going to be perused. You must be coy at this point. Drop a genuine complement his way, especially if it is something you know he is proud of and then ignore him while you chat with your friends.
The idea is to get him into pursuit mode fleeing but always keeping him feeling he can win you over. This tension builds a veracious appetite for you.
I have a lot more to explain but I don’t have room in this article to go into much detail. For more information and articles on how to attract a man visit my blog: Make Him Desire You