Don’t let your guy deal with his PE problem all alone! Here’s how to make a guy last longer in bed!

loveDoes your partner cum way too soon when you are having sex? Well, there is no need to worry, he is not the only one! Premature ejaculation is by far the most common problem that men face in bed, the reason why you don’t know that, is because men, being the big babies that they are, are usually too embarrassed to talk about it. 9.9 out of ten times you have nothing to do with this problem, but with the right knowledge and tips, you can totally learn how to make a guy last longer in bed!

So, before you learn how to last longer in bed and control premature ejaculation, you first need to understand what is causing that problem. When men get intimate with a woman, they tend to get too aroused too fast and way too easily. This is because men are wired by nature and their to rush to the ejaculation, because as far as nature is concerned, sex is for procreation and not recreation. Men are usually able to somewhat control that urge to rush to their ejaculation, but sometimes they let it overpower their will and this what causes premature ejaculation. This is both embarrassing for the man, and frustrating for the woman. But, withe right foreplay and assistance, you can help your man to last longer tonight!

Here’s what to do to last longer in bed tonight:

  • Give your man a relaxing back massage before you get started.It may sound a bit too obvious and cliche, but back massages have been medically proven to be extremely relaxing for a man or woman’s nervous system. And being relaxed when having sex is essential for your man to be able to control premature ejaculation! To make the massage even more effective and relaxing, you can put on some calm and sexy music (not death metal or anything like that) while giving your partner this relaxing back massage.
  • Have your man focus on pleasuring you first.If you think that your guy is not providing you with adequate sexual satisfaction during intercourse, then get him to focus on you during foreplay. This way you will both experience great amounts of pleasure and you’ll have lots of fun. As long as you both enjoy yourselves, there will be no worried about the frustration and embarrassment that can be caused by a quick ejaculation that occurs right after you having sex!
  • Stop him if you think that he is getting too excited and aroused.If you know your man well and you are not having sex for the first time, then you are probably familiar with how he behaves when you are having sex and how he acts when he is near his orgasm. By stopping or slowing down the  sexual stimulation right before he reaches his orgasm, you will be able to delay his ejaculation and get him to last longer!

Those are the basics on how to make a guy last longer during sex. For more information on the subject of premature ejaculation and how to overcome it, you or your guy can check out Ejaculation By Command and Ejaculation Trainer. Those are the two best books on what to do to last longer in bed.